This has been an endless battle since my eldest John Dale has been noticeably inclined and good at it - using mobile phones (games!), family computers (games) and arcade machines (games).
Now I am blaming technology for not achieving our goal - to graduate in primary school as top 1.
But is it right to blame technology? Is it our alliance or enemy?
Technology has been there before my son was born. A lot has been born after technology has been introduced to us. Some achieve their goals some don't.
So what is the common factor? That achieving one's goal for our children is mainly our responsibility or the lack of it. Let us not point fingers and blame others.
I realized with a helping hand, we could have disciplined him, gave him limitations and priorities, we could have won the battle with technology-freaked children like mine.